Comments on: My Dad Has Cheated Several Times, And My Mom Wants A Divorce Now Im Scared =[?

By: ™ Falcon Punch! ™

™ Falcon Punch! ™ — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 20:57:57 +0000

If your dad is a chronic cheater then yes your mom is making a wise choice….
There is nothing you can do sorry
The best thing you can do is to find it in your heart to forgive your dad….
I know it sounds crazy but he is your father and no one is perfect on this Earth…
also pray for him too

By: katie

katie — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 20:57:56 +0000

Do you think this is a good environment to live? Are you happy? The divorce is between your mom and dad, it’s not your fight. It shouldn’t be your worry either.

By: Jesse & Heather w

Jesse & Heather w — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 20:57:56 +0000

your mom deserves more than that

By: Jim M

Jim M — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 20:57:56 +0000

You should back your Mom. But don’t fight your father since that isn’t your place. u [sic] go to school and learn how to spell and use the shift key.
Will your Mom be happier without him? If so, then a divorce would be appropriate. Screw “until death do us part.”
He does sound depressed. Tell him that and say you heard in health class that people are depressed can get counseling. Don’t force it. Suggest it.

By: Jane

Jane — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 20:57:56 +0000

Your mom has biblical and moral grounds to leave your father by means of divorce. it is not fair to her he could bring her a disease or another child. Be supportive.

By: email image control

email image control — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 20:57:56 +0000

It’s a problem between your mother and father. Let them handle the problem. You stay out of it. No matter what the outcome, they are still your mother and father. Sometimes, people fall out of love and its only right they find someone else for themselves. This does not make them a bad person – in fact, he should move on if he is doing that. Only now, its come down to that. He will still be your father after a divorce, don’t forget that – nothing in relationships is ever perfect, and people CHANGE. If your father does not llove your mother any longer, its not right for him to stay. It is not right for YOU to harbor anger or resentments against him either. Grow UP! Grow up and accept life as it is. Sometimes, growing up can be hard, but learning how to be an adult can be even harder. Learning how to be mature and handling life’s problems gives you character, strength and power. This is a challenge in your life. can you handle it properly? Can you come out of it being a just and stronger person? Can you learn to live and let live? See this as a challenge you created for YOURSELF to see if you were strong enough to endure and overcome.
There is nothing you can do about it except accept reality and go with the flow.

By: video bot

video bot — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 20:57:55 +0000

One… It is between your mother and your dad. Your dad is a cheater and she deserves better than that. It’s not her fault or yours that he acts this way, it is his. Second, even though they are getting a divorce, he still is your dad. You love him even if you don’t approve of his behavior. But he still is your dad so it is naturally to be upset and worried about him. Even after the divorce is finally, no matter what else happens, remember he is your dad and he loves you. Stay with your mom but keep in touch with him. That is my advice. Hope it helps.