so im turning 17 in 2 weeks…
and just the other day we walked into my dads store
and some lady
wearing something reaalllyyy revealing and sexy
almost like a slip
walked out from the storage room
and he was yelling
this isnt anything!!
and he has cheated soo many times before
and a few weeks ago not even a month
my mom saw the phone bills
and she saw some number being dialed several times a day
she called and it was some ******
saying yeah we’ve been together
get a leash on ur husband lady!
and she was so rude to my sweet mum<3
then anothherr few weeks before that NOT even a month
he told my entire family he was at work
when he had taken his sports car to some 5 star resort by the beach which is like 10 minutes from our house
so my mom called my ddad and some guy from the hotel answered saying that the phone is left on a table by the pool, and so my mom drove down and finally got his room number and called and my dad answered! he was sooo shocked… it was 10 mins from our house
by the time we could get there he had picked up his things and checked out! and he had prob went to drop the little hooker lady off because we turned around and went back home but we saw him coming out of some random street.
ANYWAYS
yesterday was the last straw
he has cheated soo many times before and my parents have been married 22 years
my brother recently moved out to go to university in san diego
so hes free
but this is sad
no more family…
divorce threats have happened but i went with my mom today and she got a lawyer
so its official
not the divorce , yet
but its happening
do u think she should talk to him?
he is sooo wrong
all he cares about are his stores
money money money
but hes so crazy and i feel SO terrible because i know hes on the verge of depression
because when he loses my mom and me
hes gonna be devastated
bcuz even tho he can be the bigggest ****** around he still has a good heart… idk maybe im just see wut i want to see
idk wut to believe
but i know he is nice
just raised wrong
thats all
but i back my mom for this divorce all the way
i just idk
is it the right thing?
they fight so much
she can never trust him
he really doesnt know wut he is doing
and i knoww he is going through a midlife crisis
i mean he insists hes young all the time
he wears young cologne
and tight "sexy" shirts
and shiny shoes… tries to act all hot
idk
and he bought this new sports car
and he listens to trance and techno in it =/
and insists that everything i play in mine have a "beat"
ugh
he is always talking about how hes young for now and he can work
but when he gets old and dies
he wont be able to support us
and how his parents are gonna die
and everyones gonna die
hes so deppressed u know?
ugh im rambling but idk wut to do
somebody help me =[
am i making the right decision to back my mom?
should i be as aggresive as i am being with my dad?
[i threw his clothes into the garage and kicked him out]