My daughter just came in front door because my husband left the gate to our fenced yard unlocked for about the 5th time.He also left ladder to pool down last week.last year he did this 3-4 times.He has left utility knifes in her reach.other ladders doen near pool,chairs,and table around pool.I have talked to him several times and it does no good!How and why is he being so careless? on weekends when hes home I have to tell him its her lunch time and dinner time or he will not feed her! I don’t understand why or how he can just say he forgot and act like its nothing? I check every night for the ladder should I have to check gate,every thing else all the time?How can I get him to care?